How to connect with new coworkers...for the introverts
Connecting with new coworkers can seem like trying to infiltrate a secret society where everyone knows the handshake except you. But fear not, fellow introverts! Here's your guide to blending in without having to perform a social high-wire act.
Firstly, let's debunk the myth that you need to be the life of the party. Your mission, should you choose to accept it, is simply to establish contact. Start by mastering the art of the 'Nod-and-Smile' – it's like a secret handshake for introverts. It says, "I see you, fellow human," without having to actually use your words.
Next, harness the power of the 'Question Boomerang'. When someone asks how your weekend was, toss that question right back after a brief but vague response. "It was good, thanks! How was yours?" This keeps the conversational ball rolling without revealing that you spent two glorious days not speaking to another soul.
Remember, snacks are the universal peace offering. Bring in some treats and leave them in a common area. It's like setting a trap for human interaction but in a totally non-creepy way.
Lastly, don't underestimate the 'Email Introduction'. It's like sending a drone ahead to scout out the territory. Plus, it gives you time to craft your message without the pressure of face-to-face communication.
Firstly, let's debunk the myth that you need to be the life of the party. Your mission, should you choose to accept it, is simply to establish contact. Start by mastering the art of the 'Nod-and-Smile' – it's like a secret handshake for introverts. It says, "I see you, fellow human," without having to actually use your words.
Next, harness the power of the 'Question Boomerang'. When someone asks how your weekend was, toss that question right back after a brief but vague response. "It was good, thanks! How was yours?" This keeps the conversational ball rolling without revealing that you spent two glorious days not speaking to another soul.
Remember, snacks are the universal peace offering. Bring in some treats and leave them in a common area. It's like setting a trap for human interaction but in a totally non-creepy way.
Lastly, don't underestimate the 'Email Introduction'. It's like sending a drone ahead to scout out the territory. Plus, it gives you time to craft your message without the pressure of face-to-face communication.
So there you have it – no need to change your quiet ways, just use these stealthy strategies and soon you'll be part of the crew. Good luck!
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